I have one thing on my list.
Make Gary a greater priority than my children.
{This is from August}
It's hard because we are coming out of the stage where the kids just need us so, so much. They are cute and little and I find them very easy to love. Gary and I were just married a little over a year before Kai joined us so he's never really had my full attention.
Gary and I have always been a great team. I think it's important for our kids to see us in a great marriage. So this year, it's time to move him up in the ranks.
How am I going to do this? Hmmm....not quite sure.
It will start with me asking (and caring) how his day is/was. So easy, I know. You would think I would do this all the time but sometimes I feel jealous that he gets to leave the house (and fighting kids and toilet cleaning) so I don't want to hear about any fun stuff he has done.
So, if you see me, ask me how it's going :) Keep me accountable.
I have loved 2013. My highlights were; sleeping through the night and our trip to SE Asia. My lowlights were; being sleep deprived for 3/4 of the year and two 24 hour travel days with Nya...it was the airplane portion that was so tough.
I hope you have a safe and wonderful New Years Eve. Our plans are small but the kids will love it. It involves sushi and Menchies. And then putting the kids to bed and Gary and I enjoying a movie (and some wine for me). My belly is already full of Oliebollen. Yum.
Any New Years Resolutions for you?
Love, Louise