May Day in Fort Langley

Gary was in charge of family day today so he decided that we should go the May Day Parade. We started out at Derby Reach which would be a great location for an engagement shoot if you ask me! Kai saw his first Canadian Geese and enjoyed running around with all the doggies.

Check out Gary's new shorts below. If you don't know him, he wears shorts about 360 days a year and he usually wears the same kind everyday. This is a bit wild for him. Did you notice his newest hair cut, i think I'm getting a bit better at it:)

Enjoying (?) the May Day Parade. It took FOREVER for it to get going. Fortunately there were enough things to keep Kai's attention like `motiebikes', horses and balloons.

Our official taste tester. The knife is actually out of his reach. Time for dinner!

I only have to teach 8 more days!!!!!! Then, exams and meetings. But still, 8 more days! Wow.

Taste of Summer

This weekend has felt so much like summer. It was awesome getting the flip flops, shorts and tank tops out again! Gary came home earlier than expected, on Friday night. I had rented `P.S. I Love You' and finished just in time. I was slightly disappointed by the movie as I had been told by several people throughout the week that I had to see it and it would make me cry. Call me heartless, but I didn't cry! I'm usually the biggest crier ever, even for commercials, but I think because they said I would cry, then I didn't (I don't like it when people tell me what to do:)) Gary had a great trip and all the kids came back safe and sound with great memories so that's fabulous. I've done the trip twice and I wish i could have gone with him but I don't like the idea of leaving Kai for 5 days, and besides, who could take care of our crazy monkey?!

Yesterday, we spent time getting dirt for our garden and transporting it with our recycling bin. For the size of our yard, there is no reason to get a wheelbarrow:) It was so hot and I don't know what we did for fun yesterday but I know that I had some time to myself which was fabulous.

In church today, Kai was a disaster. He didn't like the nursery at all. I could hear him screaming from church and when his number popped up, I ran back there. I hope this is not a new stage because someone has to go to daycare on Tuesday! I tried taking him into church but he does not know how to be quiet. He kept saying stuff like `Uncle Brent praying!' (his uncle is our pastor). `All done, Kai's house!'. I'm not sure why, but he really wanted to go home. When we got home, we planted the peas, carrots, beans and lettuce in our small garden. Here are some pictures of Kai helping which is his fav. thing to do!

He is honestly such a chatterbox, I don't think he can go one minute without talking. When Gary came home, he said `What happened to him?!' because in just 5 days, he has been talking up a storm. Yesterday, Gary took Kai to bring the trailer to gramma and grandpa's house and he said `Drop the trailer off!' so he is saying many 4 word sentences now!

Another big thing is the toilet! If you are not into potty training, don't read! For the past week or so, he will say `toilet, poo poo' so we will put him on it, he will pretend to go for a minute or so and then say `no poop, all done'. Well, on Friday he actually did do it TWICE and once today at church. Good job buddy!!! Because we are not actively potty training, I think this could be a very drawn out process but that's okay with me, I'm in no hurry.

Kai is actually playing in his room by himself right now, this is rare when i'm around. Usually he has to do everything with me all the time. With Gary, he is better at playing by himself because Gary is better at ignoring him:) I'm trying to figure out how to get him to play by himself more often, but, he does not like toys or books. He doesn't watch tv although I have a feeling he might watch a Diego DVD so I may get one. I don't like him playing outside by himself but I guess I could just sit out there with him and not play with him.

I'm so excited that summer is just a month away. We will be busy with a wedding almost every Saturday and a trip to Disneyland but I hope we can do a bit of stuff around here like start finishing the basement. I would love to have a giant play area downstairs so that I'm not always cleaning up in the kitchen and great room area AND so that I get some Louise time each day.

One complaint about craigslist, this week, I have made plans to pick up a camcorder the following day at a certain time and when I called a few hours before the designated time to confirm, they told me it was sold! Excuse me?! You said I could have it and we had confirmed a time. This happened TWICE. If you are going to sell it to me, then do so! Trust me. Grrr....we're going to buy it off of ebay now.

By the way, last thing: We all napped today!!! I'm not a napper but I think the heat has gotten to me, it was awesome!

Long Weekend

Wow, what amazing weather for the long weekend! I hope we do some fun stuff. There's not much on the agenda, just maybe buy a used camcorder with a hard drive. I have one of those old high 8 ones with tapes which our new computers can no longer convert. Gary made a nifty DVD of Kai's first year and I would like to continue making a DVD a year that's about 10 minutes long of all the highlights.

This morning, Kai was up at 5am. I was so tired and not in the mood but I thought that if I let him sleep where daddy sleeps, he would fall asleep. Nope. Gary has been gone since Tuesday so its just a bit more tiring not having much down time! So, we decided to do a couple loads of laundry, have breakfast and then we were out of the door by 7am to head to White Rock. We have a photo shoot there next weekend and I just wanted to check out a few locations while Kai ran wild. The beach was busy already at 8am, it must be this beautiful weather!

Gary is doing the Wellness Trip with his PE 12 class (Powell River Circuit). He better be wearing so much sunscreen, although, i can't really talk. Yesterday I had 2 science 9 classes outside launching their rockets and I burnt my neck and upper back so badly. I really do not like getting tanned/burnt as I'm freckly enough and had enough moles removed. I'm prob. the only one wearing a long sleeved shirt outside today:)

I thought it might be fun to have the slide go into the pool. He just wanted to make a giant soup out of it. He threw thyme, weeds and dirt in it and them mixed it with the baseball bat. He loves to mix anything.

Maybe I'll try napping, I've never been a good napper. Hope you all have a great long weekend!

My Favourites

This is a blog purely about me and my favourite things. It's just because sometimes I'm bored (love it!) and wish that people had updated their blogs.

Favourite items of clothing: my saucony runners, my watch (it's not a great one but I could never not wear it), and black puffy MEC vest which I've had for at least 4 years and prob. wear way to much.
Favourite sports to play: football and ball hockey. Seriously, playing football has balanced my life out and it is the best time of the week where I get to be just plain old Louise.
Favourite book: Power of One
Favourite meal I've ever had: Back in 2004, Gary and I were hiking Stein Valley (grizzly country, no other people around for 3 days, unclear trail markings). On the third day out, Gary made a sundried tomato pesto chicken sauce with rotini. It was fabulous.
Favourite time saver: Every night, I lay out my clothes for the next day. I do this for Kai too.
Favourite drink: I only have these once every two weeks or so, I would say either a mocha or a coke.
Favourite tv show: LOST
Favourite month: August (summer, Gary, Kai and my birthdays, no work)
Favourite dessert: homemade apple pie and icecream
Favourite course to teach: Biology 12
Favourite sister to talk about family stuff: Maria
Favourite sister to make me laugh: Jan
Favourite sister to depend on: Jackie
Favourite sister to go on a walk with: Trish
Favourite chore to do: vacuuming
Favourite beach: Crescent
Favourite lens: 28-135 mm Canon IS
Favourite alone time: shower
Favourite snack: homemade cookies (which I have been without for 3 weeks on this cookie free diet which has allowed me to lose just 2 lbs)
Favourite things about our house's location: walk to Extra Foods and the park
Favourite fruit: mango
Favourite love language: words of affirmation (Gary's is Acts of Service)
Favourite part of our wedding: we wrote our own vows which were a little funny

Diggers

You can't really see the how excited he really is but boy, he loves his diggers!
I forgot about these pictures from the weekend and just wanted to add them. By the way, Gary is cute. I've been finding little homemade `cards', by Kai and Gary, all over the house in the most random places. That is def. the kind of mothers day gift I like, little hand made cards attempted by Gary and Kai:) I can see Kai's influence due to the football and basketballs drawn on the cards (Gary prob. asked him what he wanted to put on mommy's card) and Gary def. got into my stamps.

Happy Mother's Day

We had a good weekend in the Chapman household. It seems like the happiness and giggle factor has increased immensely which is good for all. Gary got to go to MEC on Friday night and bought himself some goodies. On Saturday, Kai and Gary made a yummy breakfast. Kai mixed the eggs, added salt and pepper, and then got chives from the garden. What 21 month old knows his herbs? He seriously loves to help mommy and daddy in the kitchen more than anything else.

Then, I hit two amazing garage sales to find a huge plastic slide and clothes for Kai. In the afternoon, I had an awesome football game. We all played well and I think we made our coach proud:) When I got home, Gary had a yummy dinner of braised beef short ribs and mashed potatoes for me. He also made an baked apple dessert with vanilla bean icecream....yummy!


(Kai trying to learn how to lick his first icecream cone...well, it was mine but he had his fair share!)

This morning I was in the nursery at church but Kai has been coughing so he stayed home with Gary. This afternoon we went to Crescent beach for the Chapman annual Mother's Day celebration. Kai had so much fun chasing his cousins, doggies, and birds. He also pigged out and ate more than I did! There's something so beautiful about watching your kid being so happy. He was meeting other kids and rolling down the hills with them. He gave out a huge amount of hugs and wanted to hold so many hands.

(concentrating hard!)
I think that by being a mom, it has been easier to celebrate this day. I feel for people who have lost their moms and do not have their own children to help celebrate their day. I love Kai more than anything and it really is like having your heart running around outside of your body. I don't love every part of the mom role, but it has allowed for a lot of stretching and growth in my life. At night, when i see Kai in his car bed, i just want to lay next to him and snuggle. I always knew when I was younger that I wanted to have kids but I never thought about what it would do to me. I never thought about how my life would change so much in regards to my role, responsibilites and mass of emotions.

(Kai with his closest Chapman cousin, Kieryn)

(Kai with grandma....he calls her MahMah)

Now, time to sit back and relax!

Good book

I found this book at a garage sale on Saturday and just finished it today. I really enjoyed it and would give it an 8/10. It's a true story (who doesn't love a true story?!) about what life is like inside a prison in La Paz, Bolivia. The prison was very different than I expected and I found it very informative and easy to read. Some of the shocking things about this prison are that; the best cocaine in the world comes from inside the prison, prisoners must buy their cell (there are 5 star cells down to 1 star cells, just like hotels), male prisoners may have their wife and children live there with them, and there are restaurants inside the prison. I won't give away any more but if you are looking for a good, easy read....try it:)

I am so happy that I had `Louise time' over the past few days and could read, it is def. one of my favourite things to do.

3 Things You Should Know

Here are a 3 things that drive me crazy as a science teacher and I'm sure many of you already know them but maybe you can share them with your children:)
1. Nothing is chemical free. Water is a chemical, so is the air you breathe. A chemical is made up of any of the elements on the periodic table. If you want to say it has no additives or pesticides or preservatives, say that. If you say than an object is made without chemicals, then it is not an object at all. When water companies claim that their water is chemical free, it just doesn't make sense.
2. We are animals. Yes, people are in the animal kingdom. We are mammals. Kids in grade 9 are shocked to hear that they are animals.
3. A fruit is anything with a seed. Yes, tomatoes and cucumbers are fruit.
I'm sure most of you knew this but I just needed to get it out:)

Busy Weekend

Friday, Gary finished his Wilderness First Aid course and came home at 8pm exhausted. As soon as he got home, I ran out. I don't really remember what I did but I just needed to get out:) On Saturday, same old with football (we lost a close-ish game) and baseball.
On Sunday, my four sisters, my dad and myself went to Crescent beach for our annual memorial for my mom. We walked the beach (my dad has a pedometer now to help him get in shape so he made sure we walked for enough!) and then went to the Beecher Street Cafe for lunch.

The anniversary for her death is on Wednesday. I have to admit that it has gotten much better over time but I really try not to think about it much. I would say the hardest day ever is Mother's Day which is always within a week of May 7th. I miss her a lot and actually miss more what could've been. She would've loved Kai and loved being just across the street from him. Kai would love oma so much too, especially her baking:) However, I'm still so thankful for what I do have and the life I had growing up.

After Crescent beach, Gary and I dropped Kai off at Ani and B-belle's house so he could play for the evening while we went to Jericho to take engagement photos. Ani and B-belle were wearing their cute dresses so we tried to get pictures of them but it wasn't too successful.


Here's a few pictures of Kai. Again, the `Mommy you are making life so tough on me' face:)

His hair looks a little red to me...isn't he cute?!

I'm happy to be home tomorrow, I hope its sunny!

Little photo shoot

We haven't taken pictures of Kai in the studio in forever! I didn't really think about it, I just took him down there. It is pretty much impossible for me to take pictures of him by myself. He just kept running away. Finally, I decided that food may keep him in place. These are a few pics that I took. Please excuse his hair, I thought some gel might work but then what could I really do to style it? Maybe I need to cut it short or something. I know they are pretty much all the same picture, but it's always hard to choose:) Here's our precious baby...

Apparently I'm pretty funny...